If you don’t know what you want, then it doesn’t really matter what you get.
Harsh but true. If you don’t know what you want your career to look like, then it doesn’t matter what job you work. If you don’t know what kind of relationship you want, then any type or relationship is fine.
It seems so simple but knowing what you want is so important. If you don’t know, how can you 1) go after what you want and 2) energetically pull in what you want? It’s impossible. Without a clear focus and a destination in mind, you’re sending the Universe mixed signals (and we all know how confusing it is to be on the receiving end of those…ever dated the appropriately labeled “fuck boy/girl?”).
I’m going to tell you a secret that can change your life if you’re willing to embrace it: It’s entirely possible to create the life of your dreams.
We learn to put all these limitations on ourselves in the form of insecurities, self-doubt, and feelings of unworthiness or not being deserving. But YOU are you’re only limit. What could you do it you didn’t limit yourself? Anything you want. But the first step is you have to know where you want to go to be able to get there.
Knowing what you want doesn’t mean you have all the details figured out right now. It doesn’t mean you have a workable plan made right now. Start with an outline. Start with the way you feel. For example: “I want a job where I feel valued, with less than a 30 min commute, with hard working coworkers.” Or “I want a relationship that is kind, where I feel safe, where I feel supported and respected, where I can be myself, where I feel loved.” (Your manifestation journal is a great place for this 😉 )
So what do you want? Not what you think you’re supposed to want. Not what you think is the right answer. What do you want without judging your response? What do you want because you have no limits?
What is your heart whispering for without letting your brain override it?
Be brave. There’s no wrong answer from the heart.
What do you want?
Listen closely to that stirring heart of yours.
Let the Universe help you, let go of your own limitations, and go get it because I know you deserve it. Because I know you can do, even if you don’t know it yet.
Good luck, my little light warriors. 🙏 💫